Saturday, October 13, 2018

Journal Question #4

Is it important to have a girlfriend/boyfriend?  Think of your situation now, as a teenager, in high school, working on learning English as well as learning other subjects.  Where does having  a personal relationship with someone - someone more than a "friend" - fit into your life?  What do your parents think?  (Does that matter?)

17 comments:

  1. In my opinion, as a teenager, it is important for us to have a boyfriend or girlfriend. First of all, having a boyfriend or girlfriend can improve our Emotional Quotient. When you have a boyfriend or girlfriend you need to know how can we maintain this relationship. These thing maybe can become to you experience to help you in the future. You won’t don’t know deal with opposite sex. Second having a boyfriend or girlfriend can improve you grade. If your boyfriend or girlfriend is a good person. You and he or she can study together and You will like to learn in an instant. Doing something with you lover you will always feel enjoy. At least if you and you lover can have improvement. You parent won’t say no.

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  2. In my opinion, I think have a boyfriend or girlfriend is important, it is kind of life experience. Maybe even you never can’t forget your first love. But either way, at high school, at the student, the academic is also important, but if you have a boyfriend or girlfriend, that is kind of beautiful things.

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  3. In my opinion. I think have a girlfriend or boyfriend is very important for your mood, it’s kind of life experience, sometimes when you have a girlfriend or boyfriend you can feel with new emotions and you can have new experiences with she o he. Doing something with you lover you will always feel enjoy, sometimes you can feel bad because maybe you fight with your lover and that happen, about my parents. I think It is very important that they accept my girlfriend because they are the most important people and they will always try to help you in your life and give you the best.

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  4. from Eric Guan:

    As a teenager,I don’t think have a boyfriend or girlfriend is important,because I think right
    now,study is more important for us,we have to learn more things now,and gets a good
    grade,and go a good collage.have a good life.and have a good job.

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  5. Don't need, and now my goal is to study well Take an examination of a good university If you have a girlfriend will affect our study, I think to wait until college to have a girlfriend.my parents disagree i have girlfriend.

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  6. In my opinion,I think it is unimportant to have a girlfriend or boyfriend. As a teenager,goal is study hard.Maybe have some person want to looking for a girlfriend or boyfriend.I think we should learn at this age.It’s no problem to be a regular friend with girls at this age.My parent think as a student,the student should study hard.I think looking for a girlfriend or boy friend can influence study.In my summary,this is my point of view.

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  7. In my mind, the most important with teenagers is education. It will helpful than love, but it okay get love if you know which is important. I saw a lot of teenagers just care about their love and they don’t focus in education. If you knew education is necessary, so you can take more experience about love because love is a part of life.

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  8. I think this is important and not important. Everyone is different. I think there can be a girlfriend in high school. This will help to learn English. There are more conversations with your girlfriend. Many families in China do not support children to fall in love. They think learning is more important and should only be studied, but in this young age, young people should have their own ideas.

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  9. I think having a boyfriend or girlfriend is important for teenagers. This can help your emotional intelligence, and encouragement and companionship in confusion.But my parents think Teenagers should study with all their heart.

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  10. I think that if it is important because it will help you in your futuru to form a family and have more experience, also to learn another language I think that it is a good way to do it since it will help you to improve the language.The parents' opinion is always good because they always want the best for their children and have more experience.

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  11. It is important to have a girlfriend/boyfriend because there will be more people around you who can rely on you to experience the joy of being with others. It doesn't matter that you don't have to have a boyfriend/girlfriend. As a teenager, in high school, learn English and study other subjects. A place to establish personal relationships with someone - someone is more than just a "friend" - I don't think this is a good thing, but it can happen. My parents don't want me to have a boyfriend too early, but it doesn't matter because life is their own, having a boyfriend/girlfriend is not necessarily a bad thing for us now.

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  12. I think that is important to have girlfriend/boyfriend because some people when they are sad or feel bad for something the partner can help you but at the same time have girlfriend/boyfriend can be a distraction in your life and in school.my parents doesn’t care if I have girlfriend.

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  13. I think if it is important, because it will help you build a family in your future and have more experience, it will also make you have a good memory, I think this is a good way because it will Help you improve your language. Parents’ opinions are always good because they always want their children to be the best and have more experience.

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  14. I think whether to find a girlfriend depends on the individual, some people like it, some people don't like it, for example, I like to play computer is better than looking for a girlfriend.

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  15. Thanks for your comments, everyone. About half of you say having a girlfriend or boyfriend in high school is not important. Some say a romantic relationship would get in the way of studying, and a few of you mention that your parents don't want you going out in high school.

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  16. I think it is normal for a teenager to have a girlfriend in the process of growing up. And I think that teenagers have a girlfriend is a very good thing. She can urge you to study and stay with you when you have trouble. Many foreign students are abroad, and their parents are not around. They will feel that they lack a lot of love, but you have a girlfriend or boyfriend who can give you a lot of warmth and love. Let you be less lonely and helpless.

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